This article appeared in the Sunday, June 24 edition of the Staunton News Leader. A second article she wrote is several posts below. Cindy is one of my favorite writers as well as a wonderful person. Read and enjoy!


Twins' wives make plans to cope with separation
Cindy Corell
Connections

Jan and Ed Lovell have three grown sons. They are quite blessed. Josh is the oldest, and Seth and Eli are twins.

It's been a hectic time for the Lovells this spring. Seth and Eli's National Guard units are deploying to Iraq, leaving for training in Mississippi this week. Eli married his sweetheart in August, and Seth was planning to marry his June 30.

The deployment moved that family event up. Seth and Brittany Lovell were married June 9. I met with both couples earlier this month, and this is what I learned:

As mature as the 22-year-old twins are, their brides are even more impressive.

Both Brittany and Katie are headed into the medical field. Brittany is a student at James Madison University studying nursing. Katie recently graduated from Bridgewater College, and she has been accepted to Elon University, where she will work toward her doctorate in physical therapy.

Facing the deployment of their husbands, Brittany and Katie have plans for how they'll cope. They have two trips tentatively planned — one to see Lovell relatives in Colorado, and another to Manhattan.

"We're using all their family for places to stay," Brittany laughed.

And both will be working and studying to stay busy.

Brittany was a high school senior when she endured Seth's first deployment. While her high school classmates worried about fashion and dates, she tried to make it through news broadcasts from Afghanistan.

She didn't dance at her homecoming, because she said she wouldn't dance again until Seth was back in her arms.

When she graduated from Wilson Memorial High School, her beloved was in a foxhole 10,000 feet above the edge of Afghanistan.

And through that time, Katie watched her fiance cope with the harsh separation from his twin.

"I was pretty irritable," Eli said.

I noted that both young women are in the helping field, and Katie quickly pointed out that Brittany will work with blood and guts while she will provide therapy to the already-healing.

And in each other, Katie and Brittany will have a special bond — beyond that of friends and closer than that of sisters. They will lean on one another while they alternate sending care packages to a far off land to two lucky men.

So they sat at the table, these newlyweds, holding hands and waiting out the short time they had together.

Somehow I know that though in age they all are so young, they know something that most of us take years to learn. There's a closeness between these twins born seven minutes apart, and there's a magic in the beautiful women they've chosen.

Cindy Corell is the City Editor of The News Leader. E-mail her at ccorell@newsleader.com